We’re talking with Dee McCord of The I Do Company about drag queens at your reception, non-binary bathroom signs
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Meet Dee McCord and The I Do Company
Your one-stop-shop for all things wedding in the Chicago area! Dee is the owner and founder of The I Do Company. Its branches include The Shapiro Ballroom, a wedding venue in the Wicker Park/Noble Square/West Town neighborhood of Chicago; I Do Dance Studio; and I Do Events, which provides wedding coordination and event staffing services headed by Dee. And, she tells us, the majority of employees are members of the LGBTQ+ community.
How does she manage all of those things? Dee has a great staff and a work wife and drinks plenty of wine app om gratis films teen.
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Dee is a fucking expert.
With over 700 weddings under her belt and dozens of magazine features as a wedding expert, she knows what the fuck she is doing.
She’s known as the “budget queen” – she can make almost anything happen at any budget and she doesn’t believe you should spend your life savings on a single day photo editor for free.
Dee specializes in wedding coordination, specifically for queer folks and non-traditional couples.
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Go ahead, try it. We’ll wait.
Yeah, so anyway, you can’t google “lesbian wedding” and expect to be served up inspiration and planning tips for your upcoming nuptials.
What The I Do Company does to serve the needs of LGBTQ+ couples
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And to help serve their needs, she steers them towards queer vendors and those who have received training on working with LGBTQ+ folks. There are little things, like binary bathroom signs, that you might not notice as a cisgender, heterosexual person – but Dee sees them. And she’s there to make sure her couples don’t run into that stuff on their wedding days.
For their upcoming wedding, Dee and her fiancee will be using the honorific Mx., a gender-neutral alternative to Mr., Mrs., and Ms. Because this isn’t used widely yet, they’ll be putting the definition on their menus in order to educate their guests Download mount and blade for free in full german.
As she works with couples, gay and straight, she asks a lot of questions! What are your pronouns? Are you changing your names? What titles will you use (spouse, husband, wife)? And on and on.
At the Shapiro Ballroom, they have three different kinds of bathroom signs: non-binary, the typical men’s/women’s, and one that’s a top hat and a shoe because they’re a dance studio. The non-binary signs are pictograph style – just symbols of what’s inside each facility.
This makes lots of folks happy, but some people just can’t figure out which bathroom to use db app for free. To them, she says, “just pick one and have fun!”
And we wonder if these same people are somehow unaware that they already have and use their very own gender-neutral bathrooms every day — at home.
Dee’s Favorite LGBTQ+ Wedding Moment
“We had a same-sex wedding here at the ballroom a couple months ago,” she says, “and it was a super affirming queer space. They had me hire drag queens. So halfway through the reception, we had everybody sit down and put on an entire set of a drag show.”
“We took uplighting and made a rainbow behind them download youtube video as audio. Wigs were flying and clothing was flying and the guests were just going crazy, asking each other for singles, and they didn’t want it to end! It was amazing.”
Another memorable wedding involved two very fashionable grooms and a multitude of clothing changes.
As someone who works weddings, she feels that queer weddings have an extra element of pride and freedom of expression – and that really changes the energy of the event.
Straight weddings, by comparison, feel kind of stale.
(We’re hoping they’ll start taking some ideas from us gays.)
To the straight men who think queer women just haven’t met the right man yet: STOP IT.
That’s not how this works. That’s not how any of this works.
It’s never gonna work that way. Please go away and leave us alone.
p.s. Has this strategy ever worked for you in the past? Seriously – stop it.
Dee’s Advice for Planning LGBTQ+ Weddings
Educate yourself. Don’t take a queer client if you have not done the work to educate yourself. The worst thing you can do is put them in a situation where they can get hurt because of your ignorance.
Learn about pronouns, terminology, prefixes, and queer culture before you even think about taking on LGBTQ+ clients.
About the word “gay”
Dee has a complicated relationship with this word. Many of us do. Let’s talk about it. And a few other things.
Where to find and hire Dee and The I Do Company
The I Do Company (which will also link you to every branch)
The Shapiro Ballroom – West Town / Ukrainian Village
I Do Dance Studio – Ballroom dance lessons for your wedding or just for fun!
I Do Events – Wedding Coordination and Event Staffing